Buying an engagement ring is the first step in many decisions. On the one hand, so much joy, excitement, and love is wrapped into each of these decisions. Conversely, we constantly hear from people how the weight of these decisions can sometimes be overwhelming.

We want to start by saying people should not worry about making the “wrong” choices when choosing an engagement ring. Thousands of articles and advice columns try to focus on making something that should be one of the most positive experiences for you and your fiancee into something negative. Instead, we want to focus on a few parameters and factors to help you choose the right ring for you and your partner. 

Making Sure You Pick The Right, Size, Metal & Stone

While we did say at the top that we don’t approve of the concept of “wrong” choices when it comes to ring purchases, that is mostly in relation to how people market engagement rings—in truth, ensuring that the materials in the engagement ring work for your partner, both in terms of preference and sometimes functionality, is essential.

Many people do not know their own ring sizes or their partner’s. Moreover, your partner might prefer the metal (silver, platinum, gold, or something else) and the layout, shape, and size of the stone(s). One of the significant challenges of engagement ring purchasing is that, traditionally, you should do it secretly, which means you will need to figure out how to get all this information. In terms of size, one option is to find a ring your partner already wears (making sure that it is a ring they wear on the appropriate finger) and bring it to a jeweler. 

Should You Keep Your Engagement Ring a Secret?

Tradition dictates that the person looking to propose should buy the ring secretly so that they can keep their proposal a secret. But every couple is unique, and part of life is figuring out which traditions work for you and which don’t. Some partners will actually go ring shopping together, which can help alleviate any of the stress about choosing the “wrong” ring.

If you want to follow the tradition of keeping the proposal a secret, you still have options. You could potentially ring shopping together and then hold on to the ring until you are ready to propose, or perhaps you could browse a store or ask your partner for some parameters for their perfect engagement ring. You can always work through a third party by talking with your partner’s close friend or family member.

Purchase Engagement Rings in Boston, MA

Here at Bostonian Jewelers, we provide beautiful jewelry options to our clients. If you have questions about engagement rings or need help with engraving, resizing, or getting the perfect ring for your partner, please give us a call or visit our store in Boston, MA.

Do you have a specific vision for an engagement ring or wedding band? At Bostonian Jewelers, we want to make the custom ring design process simple for you. We specialize in crafting bespoke engagement rings, wedding bands, and fine jewelry. Our integrated technology, such as three-dimensional design and printing, laser welding, and advanced casting methods, can bring your vision to life. 

We’ve broken down this process so that it is designed to be a rewarding journey to the wedding ring of your dreams. Custom design can feel daunting, but we work hard to eliminate the confusion. Contact us today to get started. 

Step 1: Initial Design Process

The first part of this process is discussing what you would like your ring to look like. Schedule an appointment to meet our designers, or walk in! We want to give you the piece you’ve been dreaming of, so try to come to this with a clear vision of what you want. Bringing along any inspirational images and elements of the design you’d like will help us start building our first adaptation. 

Step 2: Computer Aided Drawing Technology

The next step is using our 3D computer-aided drawing technology (3D CAD) to build out the first design of your custom ring. This step will enable you to be involved throughout the process so you know exactly what we are designing. These are high-resolution images of your piece of jewelry before it’s completed. Your approval is essential before proceeding to the next step.

Step 3: 3D Mold Printing

Once approved, we move on to creating the actual mold for your unique piece of custom jewelry. We utilize high-resolution 3D printers to create a wax mold, allowing you to see and feel your custom ring. This will also let you lay gemstones into the appropriate areas, giving you a sense of what your finished product will look like. We will also use this 3D wax mold to build the actual piece of jewelry - we make an impression of the wax, burn it out, and replace the cavity with the metals of your choice. 

Step 4: Cast Processing and Gem Placement

Once the casting process is complete, your ring will go through multiple polishing, blending, and softening steps. This is where custom elements such as engraving, micro-detail applications, and size adjustments are implemented. We then bring your ring for gemstones to be matched for size and quality and securely set into the piece. We will give the ring a final polish with an industrial ultrasonic bath and a high-pressure steam to remove any remaining residue. 

Work with Bostonian Jewelers 

After everything, our favorite step is seeing the first expression once we deliver the finished design. We have experienced and shared tears of joy and emotions that accompany these special moments. Three generations of manufacturing exceptional jewelry have separated Bostonian Jewelers from the competition by using innovative designs and techniques to make your dream piece of jewelry. Book your consultation with us today to get started.